Wednesday, July 10, 2013

30 Ways to Stay Safe on the Internet

1. Establish guidelines for Internet use with your parents or another adult.
Before you go online, decide how much time is okay for you to spend on the Internet each day and figure out what you can and cannot do. After you get more familiar with the Internet, you and your parents can talk again and change the guidelines.
Post them next to the computer for easy reference.
2. Don't share your password with anyone else.
3. Before you share any information about yourself on the Internet, get your parents' permission.
4. Double-check the URL (the address of the Web site) before hitting the Enter key. Make sure the spelling is right.
This will help ensure you go to the site you want, and not some other place.
5. Check with your parents or another adult you trust before going into a chat room. Different chat rooms have different rules and different types of people going to them. You and your parents want to make sure it is an appropriate place for you before you enter.
6. If something you see or read online makes you uncomfortable, leave the site. Tell a parent or a teacher right away.
7. Never send a picture of yourself (or anything else) to someone in e-mail unless your parents say it is okay.
8. If you receive unwanted, offensive, mean, threatening, or harassing e- mail, do not respond to it. Tell your parents or another adult right away.
9. Remember: not everything you read on the Internet is true.
10. Don't give out your age without checking with your parents first.
11. Never give out your full name (first and last). Don't give out your first name without checking with your parents or another adult first.
12. Never give out your home address over the Internet.
13. Ask your parents or an adult before signing up for anything online.
14. Don't give out your credit card number (or anyone else's) without permission from a parent.
15. Remember, when you are online, what you do is up to you. Don't do anything you don't want to do.
16. Don't open files or e-mail from someone you don't know. You don't know what might be inside—the files could contain a computer virus or offensive material.
17. Keep the computer in a common space, like the family room, den, or living room.
18. Never agree to meet someone you met on the Internet in person without your parents' permission. You should never meet someone you met online alone. If you do set up a meeting with an online friend, meet in a public place and go with your parent or guardian.
19. Remember that any information you share about yourself can be seen by anyone who is online.
20. Don't give out your phone number.
21. Talk to your parents (or your teacher or another adult) about the kinds of places you go and things you do and see when you are online.
22. Pick a name—different from your real name—to use online.
23. Before you go into a public area, like a chat room or discussion forum, decide with your parents if it is okay to give out your e-mail address.
24. If someone online asks you too many personal questions, be suspicious.
Stop talking with them.
25. Don't give out the name of your school.
26. Always remember that people online may not be who they say they are. It is very easy for people to pretend to be someone they are not.
27. Don't do things online that you wouldn't do in real life.
28. Be careful when someone offers you something for free, like gifts or money. You don't know what their motives are. Decline the offer and tell your parents.
29. Treat other people as you'd like to be treated. Never use bad language or send mean messages online.
30. The "off" button is always there. Use it if you need to. You don't have to stay online if you don't want to.

Source: Microsoft Corporation

Mobile Phones Ruin Love Lives

We all know (or should know) that certain mobile phone behaviors are considered obnoxious. But did you realize these faux pas can crush your love life? While certain instances of phone usage may be inevitable- or even desirable- during a date, many lapses of etiquette are major turn-offs, according to a survey from Zoosk, a social-dating site.

Hint: If you spend more time staring at your phone screen than gazing into your date's eyes, you could be in trouble. In many cases, survey respondents say they'll walk out on a date if the phone behavior is too intrusive. Unfortunately, too many single folks are clueless about how offensive such displays can be. "The unwritten rules of mobile-phone use are clearly being abused," says Alex Mehr, co-founder and co-CEO of Zoosk. "It's our hope that singles follow proper cell phone etiquette." Oh, another thing guys: Ditch the headset and phone-belt clip before the date, OK? It is so not sexy. More than 3,240 single people took part in the research.

Looks That Kill
86% of survey participants say "constantly glancing" at a device is the most offensive phone-related behavior by a date.

Date Now, Text Later
73% of respondents say sending a text is the worst phone-related activity someone can do during a date.
Send To Voicemail
51% of survey participants feel that taking call is the most offensive mobile-phone behavior during a date.

Check Please!
33% of those surveyed say they have left a date early because the other person was too absorbed with their device.

L8-er Loser
25% of women have dumped a guy via text, as opposed to only 15% of men.

Dulcet Tones
73% of survey respondents like getting voice mail from their date, as opposed to 27% who prefer a text.

Biggest Mobile Turnoffs
Annoying/obnoxious ringtone (cited by 49%)

You Lost Me at "Hello"
68% of participants say it's a no-no to check-in on Foursquare or other social platforms when arriving on a date.

Generational Divide

55% of those over age 30 don't like date pics posted to social sites; just 35% of those 30 and younger agree.